Should you record the sex?
July 4th 2008 01:43
Unfortunately, astro girl's date didn't turn out as interesting as I had hoped, so we'll wait until she actually manages to shag someone else for an update. In the meantime...
This question was inspired by astro girl, who recently made a pornographic film with her currently ex-boyfriend. She’s worried that he will distribute the film among his friends or show it to whoever she might go out with in the future. She was also worried, as a stripper, about a possible loss of income. As it turns out, apparently the film is pretty low quality and you can’t even tell it’s her. So who cares? Really she only wanted to see the film to check she looked hot from all angles anyway.
With the proliferation of mobile phones that can record it is easier than ever to tape ourselves having sex then quickly distribute. When mixed with drugs and alcohol, creating your own home movie can suddenly seem like a great idea.
It’s never worth it. The fallout can be horrific. It may never occur to the keeper of the footage to send it around, but then they’re bored, you’ve broken up and they’ve had a heap of alcohol and all of a sudden it seems like a great idea.
How embarrassing do you think it is to meet people who have seen you having sex? Very. Imagine it. Your friends. Your family. Everyone at work. Very bad times. Extremely bad times. It is lose your job and never speak to some friends or family again territory. Unless you’re a porn star I suppose.
For me it’s not much of an issue because it’s being in the moment that creates the excitement, the act itself, so I’m satisfied with mirrors and recording has never interested me. If you are going to record, make sure the footage is deleted very soon afterwards. It’s just so easy to make copies. In a messy break-up, you don’t want your ex with that sort of footage.
All that said, no need to panic. With the explosion of porn on the internet, it’s easier than ever to see sex, so I suppose footage of you getting out there probably isn’t that bad because unless your famous, nobody is going to be interested. Unless you’re a celebrity, but then some porn tapes have improved the careers of some, like Paris Hilton or Pamela Anderson. Actually they never had a career or any talent to begin with, so forget I said that. They are the new breed of ‘celebrity sluts’ – famous only because they shag around and better off ignored.
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